Thursday, December 07, 2006

sociallization

The question here is how do people manage their social life... Well, frankly, i am tired...

To start off, i am engaged, have a 9 to 6 office, have to prepare for my marriage, have to get a house and a car and prepare for my coming married life. And i am not sure how to get all these things running in one go.

Have to talk to my mom, have to talk to my sisters. Make small talks. I dont know why, but i find it difficult to make small talk. According to me, people should just talk when they have something to convey, something to discuss or something to get done.

I get up at 7 in the morning, the maid comes and starts ringing the bell. She has to be let in so she can start doing her household works. Then my fiance would buzz me in the morning to wake me up - so sweet of her. I like this about her. I get ready and reach office by 9:30. And then there is work. Mails to respond to, meetings to attend and issues to solve.

In the evening, i already have a list of todos which need to be done. And of course go for food. Talk to mom, discuss her issues. Talk to the carwala and blast him off. On top of it people complain that i dont interact with them. People get cross and then again i have to work on it.

I dont know how people tend to live in joint families. I dont even tend to remember the names of all my relatives and neither do i remember their relations with me...

When should i get my car serviced and when should i get the water purifier installed. Well, thats comparatively easy. When should i call people who expect to be in touch with me and what small talk should i discuss with them. I have nothing to say to them.

And ofcourse, my friends - some freaking out/ hanging out in the night. Watch a movie - go and explore a new place.

I just dont get it. How do people manage it, keeping in touch with all the people you know.

Maybe sometime down the line, i will be able to do all that without a hitch. The problem i think is that i intend to live up to everybody's expectations.

How to people manage to keep more than 1 girl friends? Handling even 1 girl is tiring...

Whoooooooooo, lets c where i go from here....

3 comments:

Nidhi said...

Being social is not at all tough, nor problem for one. But yes, to set priority accordign to the time is difficult. So what you need is to set priority only. Also, setting wrong priorities for wrong period may bring problems and can take you to troubles.

But, nicely written with open heart. So, I am impressed. Goood..

Jayant Kumar said...

Thanks........

Jithin R. J. said...

u r as lazy as i am...